Posted by Maria01 on October 31, 2007, at 21:56:11
In reply to Re: I hate being in this spot, posted by Dinah on October 31, 2007, at 21:36:13
No need to apologize at all...I'm glad you responded.
The EDD will only grant extentsion/provide job training if the unemployment rate reaches a certain percentage...my state is close, but no cigar. Odd thing is, there is a huge needs for vet techs..I just haven't been able to find work. I did find out yesterday that my former employer has been giving poor references, which are completely unjustified. That has negatively impacted my job search in a huge way. She was put on notice to stop doing that, so hopefully I have seen the last of it.As for my T, well, I honestly think she was out of things to say and was crasping at straws. I had shut down in session on Monday, because I am so tired of feeling this way, and given my intolerance to meds, I feel like I can't dig myself out. At one point she said she would have to step back a bit in order to help me out. That was about the last thing I needed to hear, and is the main reason why I haven't called her as she wanted me to. If she is feeling the need to step back, then, well, let me give her some space. I'm not about to have another T relationship go awry.
T's just don't know how to react in the face of depression..it really triggers their own stuff in a major way, I think. It panics them, but that's not my problem. I need to dig myself out on my own, I guess.
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