Posted by Dory on October 31, 2007, at 20:10:04
In reply to Re: bad childhood *possible triggers* » Dory, posted by llurpsienoodle on October 31, 2007, at 8:06:07
if you find answers to those questions, please let me know.. i never made it as far..
we could be a comparison study.. like a twin study! The relationships i form are not healthy at all and i have been completely unable to use any brains i may have had.. i fall on my face, crippled by repeated patterns of failure. i am resilient though.. and maybe T can help me stop these patterns.
what happened to you is enormous.. enormously wrong. What happened to me wasn't so hot either.. but there just wasn't so much of it. i just happened to have the right combination of circumstances to maximize the things that did happen.
> sometimes it HITS ME, the enormity of what happened to me
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> your post made me cry for my lost possibilities
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> but I am resilient. I should be studied for my resilience. What do I have that has enabled me to form healthy relationships? What do I have that has allowed me to develop into a smartiepants? What do I have that allows me to give comfort when I received little?
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> you're right, of course. These things should NOT happen to innocents. These things are abominable.
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