Posted by Dory on October 31, 2007, at 7:59:05
In reply to llurpsie's notes from bad childhood good life, posted by llurpsieNoodle on October 30, 2007, at 11:37:11
((((Llurpsie)))) thanks for the tip on the book, i am glad it brings you some measure of comfort
bad childhoods should not happen
no battering
no sex
no touching in bad ways
no emotional bondage
no belittling
no subtle means of mental control
no not subtle means of control
no guilt as a means of control
no shame
no fear of one's own family
no nightmares
no lack of acknowledgement
no lack of protection
no lack of validation
**ANY** abuse is abuse and none of it should happen. i know that statement might seem odd here, it's not meant toward anyone here, it's just important that i try to say it.. i need to understand that the things above apply even to kids that didn't get beaten or molested... there are many ways to significantly abuse a child without laying a finger on them
poster:Dory
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