Posted by twinleaf on October 20, 2007, at 18:05:03
In reply to Re: uncharted waters with the new T..., posted by rskontos on October 20, 2007, at 13:05:08
Thank you so much for your very caring and supportive message. rk. I have been following your posts, although not responding to them until now. All the same, they have made a deep impression on me. Although you describe so vividly the terrible alone feeling that comes from having been abused- whether emotionally, physically or sexually, and I would never minimize that for a moment, (having the same feelings myself), there also is always so much warmth and real feeling in everything you write. It's probably hard to believe that those loving feelings are just as real as the unbearable alone feelings, but, gradually, as you progress in your trust and attachment to your therapist, I'm sure they will become more real to you. Everyone does it at their own pace, and there's no need to compare yourself to anyone else- especially here, where we are presenting only quite fragmented pictures of who we really are.
The warmth that we sense in your posts has probably already been very much present in the raising of your children. I do hope, that, from one month to the next, you sense a gradual deepening of your trust in your therapist.
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