Posted by TherapyGirl on October 20, 2007, at 9:55:31
In reply to Re: Back in the black hole » TherapyGirl, posted by Dinah on October 19, 2007, at 21:41:11
You are exactly right, Dinah. My T was strongly into fixing mode (and into pointing out all the things I did wrong to get myself to this place). I know she does that to help me remember that I have power and to stay out of victim role, but it really was way too early for her to do that. I did just need her to sit with me. She did it a little at the end -- we'll see what she does next week.
I also think you're right that she is afraid for me when she sees me crash this hard this fast. But I think she missed the smaller warning signs that this was coming. I feel like I've been swinging from thread to thread for months and the last thread finally broke.
I don't have any pets, but I have other people's children who I hang out with. I'll try to schedule in more of that -- they tend to keep me more grounded.
Thanks for the support, Dinah.
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