Posted by B2chica on October 18, 2007, at 8:27:08
In reply to Re: Snuggler or non-toucher?, posted by Sigismund on October 18, 2007, at 6:02:11
i'm split.
i like to hold hands with my DH, and i do like to snuggle watching tv, but that usually lasts about 15min, then we both go to our respective chairs/couch cuz he get hot and sweaty and it gets uncomfortable....
and NOOOOO if i could kick him to the corner bedpost in the bed i would be happy! i hate him touching me in bed! hehe he gives me crap about that cuz if its freezing then i want to cuddle close till i get warmed up, then its sianara buddy. but otherwise i want him at LEAST 5 inches away at all times!
we have a queen size bed and its STILL too small!
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but other people, well, most of me just doens't like to be touched. period. but i think i bring other parts of me forward with certain people, like my sisters-n-law and my one female friend. cuz they are big huggers. and its ok with them. i like getting hugs from them.
but overall i strongly prefer NOT to be touched. the TOTAL exception is my daughter.
the only thing is my hair, im a little freaky about that...NO ONE touches my hair. its like trust for me i think. if i let them touch my hair..thats the biggest complement they could get, its that i trust them. that's my "your ok, measurement".******************
and just as a side comment. a friend of mine (female) is very much a non-toucher, she doens't like hugs or anything. but i think thats one of the reasons i liked her. i didn't feel that concern of "oh god is she going to want to hug me?" when we first getting to know eachother.
she is Very caring person, she just isnt a touchy feely person. she shows love and care in other ways. NOTHING wrong with that. She's Wonderful.
poster:B2chica
thread:789878
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