Posted by B2chica on October 17, 2007, at 13:26:20
In reply to Re: quick note... :o), posted by Dory on October 17, 2007, at 8:42:12
don't mean to chuckle...but i am SOOOOO familiar with the "drop and run".
i can't even tell you how many times i did that with old T.
but whether you said it out loud or not you STILL shared. and please, give yourself time.1)just bringing it to the front of our mind is Very hard,
2)writing it down is impossible
3)sharing that writing is unthinkable
4)and then to talk about it? unbearable.
BUT it does happen, it will. in time...when you are ready and not a moment before.it always amazes me how much we minimize things.
but i was also told CONSTANTLY growing up that i make things bigger than they are and to just "calm down". so i grew up with no matter what happened that i should just "buck up" cuz its not that big of a deal.either way.
it WAS HUGE and you did a brave thing. and you can talk more about it, or not. next visit.
sometimes i'd give it to my old T to read and as soon as he was done i'd grab my bag and stand up and go to the door. and next visit if i felt i needed to go over it i would, otherwise i'd just tell him, i'm ok with him knowing that, but i don't want to talk about it.You did GOOD DORY!
b2c
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