Posted by pegasus on October 16, 2007, at 10:34:59
In reply to Well it is officially over with my therapist., posted by catlady on October 15, 2007, at 23:11:43
I'm so sorry that it had to end with so little time. I agree with Dinah that it is completely understandable that you would be left with anger, sadness, and disillusionment . Three weeks is not nearly enough time to resolve anything that ending a 5-year relationship would naturally bring up. Of course you are angry and disillusioned. It just shouldn't ever end that way, and it's not fair to you that it did.
Did your T ever acknowledge any of that? Did you ever find out why it had to end so quickly? Those things can help, I think. But I get the impression that you didn't even get that much from her. Which would be really tragic.
And having your goodbye not go the way you needed it to is, of course, very painful. I'm so sorry that it couldn't be better for you.
So very, very sorry about all of it. Please try to take care of yourself. I hope your new T is everything that you need.
peg
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