Posted by seldomseen on October 16, 2007, at 7:43:32
And always has.
Whenever I share something sexual with him - whether it be a dream or an ideation or really just a thought - he makes it about him and our relationship.
I've noticed it before, but yesterday I shared a dream with him and he related it to him and the role he played him my life.
He always makes it therapeutic though and it really did turn out to be a good session about some potential CSA (something that we've hit on before). I gotta say though, it's a little disconcerting and leaves me to wonder if somehow he isn't a little stimulated by it.
NOW, keep in mind, I've been with this guy for years and he's never and isn't going to cross the therapeutic boundary - at least not physically. THere have been times emotionally when he has not only crossed the boundary with self-disclosure, but broke the sound barrier when he did so.
I also wonder if my feelings about this might be resistance to some CSA stuff myself.
Does anyone else's T insert themselves into sexual discussion? What do you guys think about it.
Seldom.
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