Posted by rskontos on October 12, 2007, at 12:57:41
In reply to trying to cancel..., posted by B2chica on October 12, 2007, at 12:27:38
You know she could make you feel better. Keep thinking about IRL kid and maybe that will help you sort things out. Keep telling all parts everything is ok. Tell T how you feel about her Do you think that will help. The part about her not really know how to handle all the parts of you, the alters or identities and see if she can reassure you and them. I am not sure if teen needs hugs. I wouldn't want that but that is me. I think maybe things are going to fast. Maybe to take it a little slower. Maybe Teen needs to feel safer with T, she likes her and that is a start but not still feeling safe yet to let go of her anger. I have a teen and when he is frustrated the most I get anger when he calms down the anger abates. So I would venture to say Teen is still upset about something and the anger stays until you and T find the root or make her feel safe. Again, my humble opinion. Also having two teenagers in the house again makes you relive that anger stage. I hope you keep the appt.
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