Posted by RealMe on October 6, 2007, at 15:04:28
In reply to Re: Therapy good, but working memory stinks » RealMe, posted by vwoolf on October 6, 2007, at 14:44:49
Thanks so much for your respone. I just feel badly that you think you "serviced" anyone as a child. They abused you and apparently continued including husband. What would you know about your own needs at age two. You would not. So, while I can see how one comes to that view of one's self, it wasn't us; it was them. Our motives were different. We wanted love and affection the way any child would want.
Well I am glad you have stopped some things. You do deserve better as do we all. I had 7 ECT treatments in March of this year, and I feel less depressed but worse with memory than I did before the ECT. Anyway, good for you with H. We aren't doormats; I used to act like that too but had good therapy in the 1980's, and I cured myself of the poor self-esteem. It's just that I sealed off the abuse stuff that is now coming up and making me depressed. Who would have thought!!!! Take care.
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