Posted by antigua3 on October 1, 2007, at 8:28:50
In reply to something really nice...., posted by twinleaf on September 28, 2007, at 16:47:12
I'm very happy for you; you certainly deserve it after all you've been through.
I've been seeing this pdoc for more than two years now, and while I have a great T, my pdoc and I decided that since we always needed more time at our appts., that we would begin therapy together. It has been very hit and miss over the two years--a couple of great sessions, but a whole lot of misunderstandings, so many that I thought I should stop with him. But my T convinced me that the problem was that I wasn't being open enough with my pdoc in my feelings for him.
So, I wrote him a long letter outlining my feelings and what I expected from therapy with him, and I swear, when I went to see him last week, I met a new person. I assume it was because he understands me better now, but whatever it is, it was so much better. Our whole relationship has changed for the better and I think it just may work out now.
best,
antigua
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