Posted by muffled on August 25, 2007, at 15:14:24
In reply to Re: Question *sex trigger* » muffled, posted by TherapyGirl on August 25, 2007, at 13:42:55
Sigh.
Its a tough topic, and I wouldn't even care cept for poor hubby.
But I care bout my hubby, so I spose I have to deal with it.
Therapygirl is bang on with it I think.
But TG has your t come up w/any ideas on what to do about it?
Have you any ideas on WHY?
I have wondered if its intimacy, or body image, or ?
I just don't know, but its really bad. I just can't tolerate it. I have tried. I just get really upset,I would never hit someone, but if my hubby didn't back off, I would hit him, hard. I am thinking this is in part, part of what has caused me to be so freaked lately, cus hubby been pushing a bit last little while.
I am disrurbed by it all, cuz I dunno why.
Am I just a mega prude?
Was I overinfluenced by the high school stuff where you either a slut or a tease, and therefore there's no winning?
I did have gynecological surgery when I was in my later teens, could it be that?
Could I somehow tie it into the fact I come from a family with all sisters and no brothers?
I just don't know.
But its a problem, and its getting to be more and more of a prob.
Its sorta funny how we could dissociate, but now we can't when we need to. I still do, but not necc when I need to(eg sex).
I am puzzled by so much.
Thank for your guys replies.
I may just try and get away w/hubby, so no kids around, cuz that DOES bug me, and take a goodly dose of xanax and just let 'it' happen and hope like hell I don't barf on hubby, or hurt him flinging him off the bed.
I am a middle aged woman with kids, is this ridiculous or WHAT?
M
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