Posted by JoniS on August 1, 2007, at 8:04:32
In reply to help, posted by sunnydays on July 31, 2007, at 19:20:33
> ... I'm so sad. He told me at the end of the session today and we talked about it a little, and I see him one more time Friday and then he leaves. I am so sad. I feel like such an idiot for getting close to him and then getting so sad when he leaves when I know he needs vacations to do the job.
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> So sad. And it was a hard session anyway. I feel like I'm dying from sadness.
>Sunny,
So sorry for your sadness. I know that situation well. Don't beat yourself up "feel like such an idiot for getting so close to him..." -- thats THERAPY [oddly enough] you are supposed to get close to him. He understands that you are sad and that you feel close to him. It's not a bad thing, it's human, and it's part of why T is so painful.
Hang in there. Do somethings good for yourself to help you get through the time he's away.
Wishing you well - peace & strength :-)
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