Posted by gardenergirl on July 25, 2007, at 22:37:56
In reply to Re: What to do when T forgets you're terminating?? » gardenergirl, posted by Dinah on July 25, 2007, at 19:07:02
> He's shown ambivalence over losing you before hasn't he? Or shown that it will be a loss for him as well as for you?
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> My guess is that he's pushed it out of his mind because he didn't want to think about it.That seems close to what he finally said. He's not really big on admitting mistakes, though. It took him awhile to move away from saying that he understood things differently to he didn't remember what I did. So when he said that, it was offered as a very tentative, very noncommittal idea. The only one, though. :)
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> (And I congratulate you on your restraint because my therapist would not possibly be able to forget if I was terminating as I'd be driving him crazy by incessantly discussing it.)Thanks. It's funny though, because I feel like it's all I've been talking about lately. Everything seemed to come down to termination when I would get to the bottom. And all those termination tangents are pretty important to me, too.
Still shaking my head...
Thanks
gg
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