Posted by slugdoo on July 23, 2007, at 3:42:49
In reply to Re: Needs -- Jammer + Daisy......for DAISY and » TherapyGirl, posted by jammerlich on July 22, 2007, at 22:43:38
Okay this is what I think, and I am sorry it seem so to the point. I truely don't think you trust your T after everything you went through with termination and then she didn't even remember how you felt about that, and then her leaving for vacation and her not being able to give you what you need. There seems to be a theme of her letting you down and not not even being concience of how you are stuggling.
Sometimes we don't know exactly what it is we need, but we do know when it feel right to us. I just wonder if you T can ever give that to you. It kinda reminds me of a child looking for love of a parent, and sometimes no matter who hard the child tries or needs love, the parent just don't know how to give it.
I had a very hard time trusting anybody, and if my T did some of the stuff yours has, I probably wouldn't have stayed with him. It took awhile, but I know he is there (here) for me, and I trust in that. I feel him within me.
I hope I dont' make you angry about what I said about your T, I just want the best for you.
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