Posted by TherapyGirl on July 5, 2007, at 17:17:33
In reply to Not well, I'm afraid » TherapyGirl, posted by jammerlich on July 5, 2007, at 3:02:37
I know. It's a terrible place to be. I hope it passes relatively quickly for you and that this will be a distant memory as soon as your T comes back.
Did you check to see if T is reachable? I can see where that might help things, even if you didn't talk to her.
One of the things that has helped me in the past (when I'm not in this icky space with my T) is for her to call and leave me a voice mail right before she leaves the office reiterating that she will come back. It used to be that just her voice would calm me down. For the same reason, I save messages from her pretty much forever. :-)
Interestingly enough, her voice has not calmed me down for the last couple of months while I haven't felt connected to her. But I did listen to messages she left BEFORE the last couple of months last night and somehow that voice (from her pre-Zombie days) still comforts me. Go figure.
I hope it gets better for you soon.
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