Posted by LadyBug on June 13, 2007, at 14:06:27
In reply to Re: Anxiety Plus Today....long vent ;o(, posted by B2chica on June 13, 2007, at 13:13:53
Thanks for the kind words B2chica and for telling me I'm a good mom. I try to be. I've spent hours and hours trying to see that my girls have what they need to deal with the family issues.
I was thinking about my daughter struggling with female's. It's because the first lady Dr. that she saw lectured her on drugs/drinking etc. The lady APRN today lectured her about having sex at her young age and how it will affect her in the future when her and her boyfriend breakup as most teenagers do. And I tell her all the time the things she needs to hear about her choices etc. She's learned to get what she wants by being angry and me giving in to her because I can only take so much of her being angry with me. The APRN today had a great explaination for this kind of behavior. I need to just let her get angry with me and not give in to her no matter what. I'd be happier as a mom and she'll have to learn to deal with the answer "NO"!!!
Sorry for rambling. I go see my T tomorrow, she has no idea of today's drama, but she's going to find out. I need things to feel balanced for me before she leaves for a month. I'm scared in many ways.
Thanks so much for your help.
Hugs
LadyBug
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