Posted by B2chica on June 13, 2007, at 13:13:53
In reply to Anxiety Plus Today....long vent ;o(, posted by LadyBug on June 13, 2007, at 11:55:41
i'm sorry i don't know what to say except thank you for sharing...
and do just know that although a divorce may be hard on children, what you know and they dont is that staying in a bad marriage is WAY WORSE than the divorce.
-also, some times i wish loved ones could see what we write here...what you wrote has So much tenderness toward your children in it. it is Wonderful to hear....and from that alone i can tell you are a really good mom (despite all your suffering)
please keep in mind that seeing parents sick most times help make the child more compassionate about illness and disability, and sometimes inspire them into future careers.about your daughter in therapy and on meds...well those things are there for a reason. you were just smart and open minded enough to seek help for your daughter when she needed it. be VERY proud of yourself for that! many MANY children are denied help because their parents dont 'believe' in psychological help or medication.
i am sorry you are hurting so much. but i see so much perseverance within you...i just hope you can maybe see that too.
best wishes.
b2c.
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