Posted by frida on June 7, 2007, at 23:34:02
In reply to Re: will i be ok? » frida, posted by sunnydays on June 7, 2007, at 23:22:37
Thank you..
Thank you for saying i don't have to tell right now and I can wait and it'll be ok even if I can't tell right now. Maybe telling little bits is ok..and she'll understand?It is painful to feel little. I felt comforted and safe when I was with my T and she said I was safe. Just hearing that meant so much. I can't believe it when I say it myself. Hearing my T is so important...she told me today that I was safe, and that she was there.
It's hard to know how to believe that I'm alone. :-( Such a deep need to be told "you are safe, no one will hurt you..".
Just those words bring tears to that little girl.I will try to do something soothing. Like holding a teddy bear and trying to hold on to what my T said..I'll try to believe I won't stay alone and lost with the "bad stuff".
Thank you so much for your message.
It helps a lot...
Frida
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