Posted by LlurpsieNoodle on May 30, 2007, at 23:10:52
In reply to behind Door # 1 and Door #2 update, posted by LlurpsieNoodle on May 21, 2007, at 20:53:25
behind door # 2
soft spoken male T who seems gentle. asked me good questions. didn't leap to conclusions or use foul language. (did I mention that door #1 used the words "sympathy f*ck" to describe my obliging my husband even though sex was difficult for me?
so door #2 has some redeeming qualities. Asked good questions make good observations. didn't tell me stories about his other clients that could have possibly upset me
door #1 seems too assuming. too full of himself. like he already knows exactly what to do with me before he's even gotten to know me.
door #2 recognized one of my strengths and told me that it wasn't an act that I was well-spoken and had a nice manner. He said that that was as much a part of me as anything else.
Door #1 said the fact that I could ask him why he told me very very disturbing story during initial phone interview was a sign that I was further along to "healing" than maybe I thought I was.
Door #1 seems a bit too linear for me. Door #2 seems more mysterious.
can you tell which one I'm leaning towards?
boastful vs. unassuming
door #1 has better waiting room, but they both have classical music. That means that if I should ever have a session with nothing to say I can just whistle whatever tune was playing outside.
-Ll
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