Posted by raisinb on May 21, 2007, at 13:23:03
In reply to Re: quitting stories? (poss. trigger?) » raisinb, posted by Dinah on May 21, 2007, at 12:43:06
Thanks, Dinah. It's good to know that others have done it and things can move on anyway.
I don't think it's possible to do the thinking with her. She feels strongly that I should stay, and says so. I love hearing it, but I also am not getting the sort of helpful sounding board/second self, that I'd need to really sort it out. Also, my transference is so intense that when she does try to be neutral, I start to feel very rejected.
I might take the break, but part of what I want to do is to feel strong because I really *did* quit something which might be unhealthy for me. Not sort-of quit with a safety net of "I'll be back in two months," but commit to breaking it off.
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