Posted by pegasus on April 25, 2007, at 9:03:18
In reply to Lots of stuff coming up, posted by pegasus on April 22, 2007, at 22:22:09
This morning I realized the biggest thing that comes up when I think about the questions I want to ask is a huge irrational fear: What if he didn't notice anything special? What if he didn't find anything uniquely valuable in our relationship?
I'm absolutely positive that that couldn't be the case. I don't get that sense from him, and anyway I don't believe it's possible to really make a connection with another person (any other person), and not feel something unique in that connection. But that freezing fear is definitely there. My inner 10 year old frames it as: "What if I'm not really there." Yikes. Got something to work on with this one.
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