Posted by gazo on April 21, 2007, at 21:31:26
In reply to Bringing spouse to my therapist, posted by canadagirl on April 21, 2007, at 20:12:53
well.. there i have experience :/
there are two things.. one you mentioned, not wanting to taint the relationship you have, and the other is that as it stands he is *your* T and not the family T.. yes? You would really need to discuss that with him.. from your point of view, his and that potentially of your husband.. i would think your husband is going to feel outnumbered.
i would go sometimes to my H's T... and all that happened is that he got denfensive.
i honestly don't know how family T's work.. but it has to be equal and unbiased. If you feel your T can do that now, and that your H won't feel outgunned.
if your H doesn't want to go it might be hard anyway...
why do you think he'd say negative things? why would it bother you if he did? do you think your T would change his view of you then? why does that matter?
sorry... devil's advocate.
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