Posted by muffled on April 14, 2007, at 20:26:11
In reply to ......sigh..... transference, posted by LittleGirlLost on April 14, 2007, at 19:19:33
Nice to see you LGL.
As far as the wanting your T thing. Well, I ahve found that a nice voicemail (has to be fresh!)is good. Not all are good, but some are great! Anyway, if she says some reassuring stuff, and uses the right tone of voice, it can be very comforting to listen to, over and over as neccessary. For the most part I think I thankfully have gotten past this stuff. (REALLY hope so). But theres been times I have listened to a voicemail over and over, and it has comforted me.
For me it had something to do with not being able to somehow understand she still existed once I went away from her office or something? I just couldn't hold onto her.
Hope this eases soon for you.
Take care,
Muffled
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