Posted by pegasus on April 10, 2007, at 10:36:41
In reply to Re: Lovely card from my T » pegasus, posted by Poet on April 9, 2007, at 17:53:46
Hi Poet. Yeah, it was tough trying to detach from the old T. And in fact, I have not. I still email him from time to time, and I'm having a session with him over the phone this Friday. Still trying to work out anger and betrayal over his moving away and nature of our termination work. It totally sucks, and I'm glad you haven't had to do it. I truly wish I'd found my current T first.
I'm not sure what kind of ritual I'll do. But I think I will do one. Any ideas are most welcome. Part of me feels like I need to include more people than just her. Maybe my husband needs to be there. This all affects him so much, too. I need some kind of death and renewal type ritual, because the death part of this is what's hanging me up right now.
Thanks for your interest. You are right that "detaching" and reattaching are hard, if they're even possible.
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