Posted by nychick on February 7, 2007, at 2:52:17
In reply to Re: I am falling in love with my therapist too!, posted by widget on February 5, 2007, at 12:09:38
I have had a mini break thru! First thank you to the already replies I have had, I appreciate you all, and I really enjoy these boards... I am glad to have found this site!! Well, I went to therapy as usual on Monday with my man and when I looked at my so called "crush" my mind completely reverted back to she's my therapist and that's it!! We had a successful, but intense session which involved talking only about my man and I's issues, (were in couples therapy) but she pissed me off because she kept misinterpreting me, which did well to keep me steered away from my inappropriate feelings for her... That session got my mind turning all day yesterday and I had a long talk with my man tonite about, not my secret crush on the therapist, but on my bisexual curiosities, and it was so wonderful! My man was SOOOO supportive of me, in a good way not the typical "I'm a guy and I love the thought of you with another chick how hot, ha ha." He was kind and sensitive and said if I wanted to explore that option with or without him, that he would support me in anyway, never leave me out of jealousy etc, unless I wanted to leave him. I told him that I am in love with him but that I would like to possibly just see what happens, and if I did "try things" with another woman, that I would be sure to include him in all ways I could. (emotional and possibly physical) I think it took our comminucation to a whole other height and almost made me feel free and not this pre-marital trapped woman who is freaking out cuz I am going to be married soon which means, STAMP I am dead! LOL. (can you tell I have never been married before??) My man and I have been together for 7 years and he is a GREAT guy and the way we talked tonite makes him even GREATER than I expected. I feel liberated and YES NOW we together, will tell the therapist next session that I have BI curiosities but I will not mention they would be for her or with her... but I am interested in her reaction, at least for fantasy, lol. I think her jaw is going to hit the floor, lol, (she is young/my age/in training) and I think that is the last thing that she is expecting to hear from us. It would be hot if we all had a 3 way session all right, without clothes, ha ha, but I know realistically that is very wrong and I am a rational gal. What I did get from all this, is that my man has made it safe for me to have attractions out there in the real world, that I don't have to limit myself to just the therapist now, lol... THAT is even hotter!!! So, would you all like me to post what happens next session when I "out" myself to my therapist with my man by my side??? LOVE YOU ALL! NYCHICK
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