Posted by muffled on January 25, 2007, at 0:10:44
In reply to Me too (finding a new T) **triggers**, posted by toetapper on January 24, 2007, at 18:02:53
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Weeeeeeeeeeellllllllll, #5 didn't sound completely hideous?
I was SO lucky, got a good T first try. Referred by my pastor. She is not perfect, but she is human, and the best thing of all bout my T is that she is gutsy and game to hear anything and try anything, and she truly wants to help people. Her other very good thing is that she is very careful bout what she says. She is very good bout not putting words in my ever so silent mouth. I have had my struggles w/her, but we have stuck it out and its good.
So I guess what I would say, is keep trying and if you click at all w/someone, mebbe they will be OK. I think versatility has been key w/me, and kindness, and patience and perseverence!
I think T was not so great at first, but it has evolved into something that works. It did take some time...
I remember reading posts bout people changing T's and wanting to dump my T, but being afraid too, cuz i didn't wanto have to look for a new one :( But now we OK.
I don't know what I am trying to say?
Mebbe keep trying cuz its good when you geta good one?
And guess wishing you guys best wishes to find one soon?
And mebbe pastoral T ? I sometimes feel the pastoral T's are sometimes more flexible?
Dunno.
Take care,
Muffled
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