Posted by youngaddict on January 20, 2007, at 22:11:32
In reply to Re: my insides feel out.. » youngaddict, posted by Tamar on January 19, 2007, at 18:39:50
It can sound so harsh when they say things like that, can't it? When my T tells me he can't do something, it hurts so much that I can't speak, but there's a part of me that wants to shout, "But I really, REALLY want you to!"
**i know.. i really wanted her to say that she cares and she will help me through this and we can do it and rah rah rah and she didn't. she said that she was not able to save me.
Did your therapist tell you what she *can* do for you?
** no she didn't and i wish she had.
Did she tell you she can help you make changes, or that she can be there with you on your journey into health, or that she can give you non-judgemental support when you face temptations and difficulties? Sometimes it's not enough and we still want them to save us... But sometimes it can help to know that despite their limitations they're going to be there for us.
** i feel like its not going to be that way that she won't be theree for me but i know shes just a paid person and doesn't care about me the way i want her too. although why its so important to me is sommething i am sturggling with so far.
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