Posted by Karolina on December 4, 2006, at 0:15:16
In reply to How long????, posted by Karolina on December 3, 2006, at 16:12:58
Thanks you guys for your responses. Hope I am not being rude by writing a more 'general' response instead of ones to you individually...I agree; you need it when you need it and I shouldn't let what my mom says interfere or put pressure on me. I think a lot of it has to do with her never being in it before, not knowing what it is like and stuff.
Anyway I felt kind of stupid making a whole other post and I've posted a lot about it before so I didn't want to take up space and chance getting on people's nerves about it BUT it has to do with a transference issue towards my T. Or actually it may be even more than that.
It's kind of hard to quote out of context but basically we talk a lot about my feelings of attraction towards him (which he says he feels flattered by) and he compliments me a lot on my appearance. (But the thing is that I disagree with him totally, and it makes me feel conceited quoting him, but I promise I don't mean for it to sound this way) But the other day he had said he thought I was attractive, pretty, that if he were my same age, that he would be attracted to me. But that since he's my T he is in a dilemma; that he 'doesn't want to deny me of these things' but that he's also my doctor, so much older, married, etc. I don't know why I am up late thinking about it but does that sound like an odd thing for him to say?
Thanks,
-Karolina-
poster:Karolina
thread:710003
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