Posted by inimitable on December 3, 2006, at 21:05:59
In reply to Re: How long???? » Karolina, posted by TherapyGirl on December 3, 2006, at 20:30:05
hey, i have been seeing my T for almost a year, not quite a year yet though. and i tell you, I am just NOW starting to feel a connection to him. and i was going to have to leave this town i am in (and him) in the middle of Dec, but plans changed. he was concerned about my plans to move (it a VERY long story) and suggested that instead of moving, i stay here, because the reason i was going to move and the plans i had made, they fell through, and it made me a mess, but i was still planning on moving anyways, even though i had no reason to. but he told me he was really concerned about me, being without a therapist, and he knew that even though he would try to help me find one before i were to move, that the new therapist wouldn't be much help, because i wouldn't really open up to the new T. and my T knew this, and CARED about me!!! i was so happy when i found that out, because he cares about me, and because i was really going to miss him when i left.
i agree with the others, it should be a choice between you and you T, don't midn what others may say about how long therapy should last...you'll know when you're ready to be without your T :)
Therapists ROCK!!!!*inimitable
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