Posted by bird in the sky on November 25, 2006, at 20:43:25
In reply to Re: Love with therapist, posted by jennifer s on November 24, 2006, at 14:28:33
Hi Jennifer
i won't claim to know how you feel, cause i can't imagine having both the grief for lost husband and this strong love (for T) at the same time. It seems like so musch for you...
I am deeply in love with my T and it feels so sad yet so delicious at the same time. It has gotten better over the last year, cause i don't think about him all the time just a few times a day or so. I think it gets better as one gets better in therapy. I don't feel my love has diminished, it just doesn't affect me quite as much and i pretty much accept the fact that there won't be any physical or outside contact between us. This has taken me around 2 years. I think it was good i fell in love with him and maybe it would be good for you too, if you go back to him and just talk to him about everything. It's really very nice, as long as you can stand a little more pain...
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