Posted by sunnydays on November 9, 2006, at 9:16:33
In reply to Stupid about vacations, posted by Daisym on November 9, 2006, at 1:08:51
((((((((((Daisy))))))))))))))))
No, you're not nuts at all. If you haven't felt an attachment like this, you can't possibly understand. Last time my T went on vacation I was so so sad, and I couldn't sleep, and he made sure to tell me in advance the next time he went away. And schedule check-in calls and things like that. But vacations are incredibly hard when it's someone that's really important and that you really on as part of your support base. Not nuts at all. And there's nothing wrong with letting the little girl's feelings come out. I can sooo identify with how scared you must be that he won't come back. But he will - he has to right, so he can give you back your charm?
You are absolutely fine Daisy. And I'm sure your therapist would say the same thing. Everyone's different. And personally, I think if your group hasn't felt the kind of intense attachment you have, they're missing out. It's a special feeling, although it can be so so painful at times.
(((((((((((Daisy)))))))))))
sunnydays
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