Posted by Dinah on November 8, 2006, at 12:39:54
In reply to Re: Partial followup on move, posted by Jost on November 8, 2006, at 10:29:52
But that's part of our relationship. It may not sound like it from my Babble posts, but in *some* ways I'm very careful and aware of the boundaries.
The physical ones aren't really an issue. Phone calls and stuff like that.
But the emotional ones I'm very aware of at all times. While I might occasionally slip, and while I most definitely ask open ended question that he can answer in as much detail as he likes, I'm inordinately careful to separate my therapist and the person behind my therapist and to never ever intrude.
That's part of the relationship.
Of course, it's also part of me and my background. And my therapist says I take it to extremes. But...
I really don't understand why he is so overwhelmingly positive that I wouldn't want to see him at his regular office where his furniture and stuff will be. He's so very certain of it that I get the impression that he doesn't want me there for some reason. Maybe something to do with the pdoc from h*ll. I really need to ask.
poster:Dinah
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