Posted by Daisym on November 2, 2006, at 15:12:00
In reply to Re: Staring us in the face » Daisym, posted by Dinah on November 1, 2006, at 9:24:57
You sound just like him Dinah. He tells me I don't have to take care of him. But it is hard not to.
And trust is hard. Because I DO trust him. I don't trust ME. Does that make any sense? I'm just sure I'll wreck our relationship somehow. He tells me that he won't let me, that he can handle whatever I come up with. But boy, lately I've been giving him a run for his money.
Yesterday we agreed that therapy is a bunch of beginnings. We don't start over...we take a breath and begin again. And begin again. It was nice to think about it like that, instead of messing it up and fixing it. It still feels weird to criticize him, even if part of it is a projection.
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