Posted by SatinDoll on October 29, 2006, at 4:38:07
I can't believe this is all went down in the last couple of weeks, but just when I am doing well, then wham!
First off my DH found out last night that his mother might have brain cancer. They have ordered a full body scan to check for it on Monday. My brother in law is hiding it from her until they know for sure, but I am sure she is thinking the worse anyways. My MIL is one from hell but I still do care even if I don't like her much.
Then my FIL who is married to my MIL who might have cancer, is wanting to refuse to do dialyses now because he just feels horrible anyways, he fell last weeks and doesn't have much use of his arms because he is so week. (he has been getting it for 2 years now) He is the one most of us have been worried about because is on his last legs.
Our family had plans to go visit right before Christmas and I was going to pass, and let my DH and our kids fly out there to give me a break. I have never been away from my kids for more than one night, and after finals in school, it would be nice to have some alone time and to get ready for Christmas while they are gone.
Well now my DH and my kids will probably need me for support because who knows how things are going to be in the next 2 months.
Then my DH job is on shaky ground, the company he is working for is under a major law suit that could make the company go banckrupt because of it. Things don't look good but nothing official is being said. He has been with them for over 22 years. Soooo my DH will be interviewing for job in Nashville when he goes to the music show in Austin.
I don't want to move, things are just going great for me now. And you all know the trouble I am having with my marriage anyways.Then the little stuff, my 10 yr. old son is acting out lately having temper tantrums. I have a major psych paper due Tues., and a jazz band concert with a solo on Wed. I am going freakin nuts right now, I don't know what I am doing.
I see my T this Tuesday, and I am sure he will love hearing all of this especially when he thought he was getting rid of me at the end of the year.
I guess I am still in shock about all of this. I am going to work out this morning and try to work on my paper. I still need to find an outfit for my concert too. Plus I have rehearsals on Mon, Tues, too. What the hell happened to my life? I didn't think it could get much worse, but I was wrong.
How do you support a DH who is under a lot of stress of his job and now his parents, how do you support him when you can't even stand him right now because he has cheated on you?///////
poster:SatinDoll
thread:698646
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