Posted by sunnydays on September 9, 2006, at 21:18:48
In reply to I just don't get it..., posted by muffled on September 9, 2006, at 20:50:18
Yeah, it does. Attachment is soooooo hard. I'm struggling with it myself right now. I think giving the kids what they want might be alright, but remember the protector is there for a reason, so maybe waiting until the protector feels safe and is ready to step aside rather than trying to force it would make it a little easier? But I don't know, really. Maybe it wouldn't. Sorry I can't be more help. But I sympathize.
(((((((muffled))))))) (if you want hugs)
sunnydays
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