Posted by pegasus on September 8, 2006, at 9:39:24
In reply to Re: He replied!!! Help me figure out what to say! » pegasus, posted by Daisym on September 7, 2006, at 23:39:00
Thanks so much again Daisy. Yes, you get it. Why do so many Ts not get it? I guess they haven't been there. But it restores my faith in Ts to hear how well your T does seem to understand.
Now, my own exT clearly isn't getting it, and that's part of my challenge. I need for him to understand. So, I'll try to figure out what I can say, and how I can ask him to please try very hard to hear and acknowledge me. Maybe if he at leasts gets how important it is to me for him to understand - even if he doesn't actually understand - it'll help me get closer to healing.
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