Posted by ElaineM on August 25, 2006, at 14:13:07
In reply to I want to call my T?, posted by LadyBug on August 25, 2006, at 13:50:48
((((LadyBug)))) It sounds like you're really trying to have a stiff upper lip. Deciding to leave your marriage must be a really difficult decision to make -- even if you're not in "danger". Having never been married myself, I can't truly understand how it must feel. But it sounds like you're trying to protect yourself and do what's healthiest for you.
I'm worried though that you feel like you have to do it all alone -- no family, no T? You shouldn't have to go through this without even one of your supports. I mean, you know yourself better, but do you think it might be better to wait until later to work on your "dependence" on your T? I don't know, I only want you to have some comfort available. I guess you could do both -- cope on your own, but then not feel too bad if you do need to call her. Is your desire to do this without too much help from her, because you worry that she won't be there if you ask? Don't worry about rambling or posting -- do it, especially if it's helping you.
((((Ladybug)))))I'm thinking of you, EL
poster:ElaineM
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