Posted by rainbutterfly on June 29, 2006, at 8:12:09
In reply to My T got me figured out, I think, posted by llrrrpp on June 28, 2006, at 18:10:42
hey ll,
Anger and unmet dependence needs sounds like me - it took me years to let go of the hurt regarding my parents .... they were cold... and I could go on.... I am not there yet either! I did transfer a lot of anger onto my therapist. I guess that is part of the process. He moved away though so I am having to find someone else :o( And more anger and hurt caused by the abandonment grr.Thanks for sharing this, I still struggle to verbalise my feelings sometimes (expression of feelings were taboo in the parental home and I internalised that to mean that feelings were taboo :o(..) so your posts and others here help me quite a bit. It sounds like you've done a lot of work in the time you've seen your T, it's good to be open (more than I am anyway, grin)
((((llrrpp)))))
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