Posted by sunnydays on June 25, 2006, at 10:45:08
In reply to Re: Let's just imagine that your T......, posted by sleepygirl on June 25, 2006, at 10:33:28
I think everyone else has the right idea about wanting those special events to happen to you. It seems from your post that you might be trying to hide from yourself that you're attached. You know, "just a guy that I talk to" isn't exactly accurate. He's "just a guy that you talk to about the things that are most important to you and private and things you don't share with other people." So it would make sense that you're attached, and that you feel sad that he's going to be gone and that you know he'll be thinking about his daughter and not you. But I don't think AT ALL that that means that you don't matter to him. I think that you can't be in therapy with someone and not matter to them. You're a human being with problems that he is trying to help you with, and even if nothing else (and I suspect there's plenty of other reasons you matter to him), you matter to him because of that.
(((sleepygirl)))sunnydays
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