Posted by muffled on June 24, 2006, at 17:08:39
In reply to CSA lecture - trigger, posted by Daisym on June 24, 2006, at 0:29:58
But he said I was ready to start taking care of her myself too. He said when I feel scared or overwhelmed, I should stop and consider which part of me is needing more safety and then find a way to give it to her. I cried, because I know I need to and I'm so terrified I'll fail her. Again. My therapist was really gentle but kind of relentless. He said I'm not little anymore and I can "run away" if I need to.
**I'm trying to take care of my Kid, but I dissapoint her LOTS. She don't really trust me, but she don't hate me either.
What does he mean by run away? Physically?
The Kid can't run, so its our adult job to protect, so if we run, they are with us. So they'll be ok. Is that what it means?
Thanks
Muffled
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