Re: How do you move on from an abusive childhood? » antigua

Posted by happyflower on June 23, 2006, at 17:27:47

In reply to Re: How do you move on from an abusive childhood?, posted by antigua on June 21, 2006, at 20:22:14

Hey antigus,
I think I have been grieving for a while now, but for some reason I just feel angry. It is like the more I know about child developement, the more I become angry at my parents.
My mom used to say, hey I don't need to read a book about raising kids. ( even as a kid, I remember that "what" ? You have got to be kidding.
I remember once when my mom was around and my daugher was like 2 yrs. old. Well she made this breakfast cassorole and gave my daugher an adult size portion (in my opinion) and was telling my daughter that she was a bad girl for not cleaning her plate. I just couldn't believe she said that to a 2 yr. old. Then my mom thought I was spoiling my daugher because I didn't spank her. Well maybe I don't spank my kids, but that doesn't mean that I don't disipine them. My mom was really messed up, I am so glad she is out of my life.
Thanks antigua for you post and your support. ;-)

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How do you move on from an abusive childhood? happyflower 6/21/06
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Re: How do you move on from an abusive childhood? » happyflower Tamar 6/21/06
Re: How do you move on from an abusive childhood? antigua 6/21/06
Re: How do you move on from an abusive childhood? » antigua sunnydays 6/21/06
Re: How do you move on from an abusive childhood? » Tamar orchid 6/21/06
Oops. above for HF. (nm) » orchid orchid 6/21/06
Re: How do you move on from an abusive childhood? Daisym 6/22/06
Re: How do you move on from an abusive childhood? » Daisym antigua 6/22/06
Re: How do you move on from an abusive childhood? B2chica 6/22/06
Re: How do you move on from an abusive childhood? » B2chica antigua 6/22/06
Re: How do you move on from an abusive childhood? » antigua B2chica 6/22/06
Re: How do you move on from an abusive childhood? » sunnydays happyflower 6/23/06
Re: How do you move on from an abusive childhood? » Tamar happyflower 6/23/06
Re: How do you move on from an abusive childhood? » antigua happyflower 6/23/06
Re: How do you move on from an abusive childhood? » orchid happyflower 6/23/06
Re: How do you move on from an abusive childhood? » Daisym happyflower 6/23/06
Re: How do you move on from an abusive childhood? » B2chica happyflower 6/23/06
Re: How do you move on from an abusive childhood? laura k 6/27/06
Re: How do you move on from an abusive childhood? » laura k B2chica 6/28/06
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