Posted by ElaineM on June 20, 2006, at 18:42:59
In reply to i feel sick, posted by Karolina on June 20, 2006, at 18:15:23
Karolina, Please don't feel like a hypocrite. I'm coming to understand that everyone's relationship with their T is totally different, everyone's situation is different. You are more than helpful by just responding at all, by being honest. I feel for you because we have some similarities, but you are also entitled to whatever feelings you have. All of them. I can understand how difficult it would be for you to feel one way, and support another at the same time. It is the context that matters, and that changes for each individual. And, I get it cause I still feel strongly for my T and want to be close to him.
Please don't feel like you have to qualify your posts. Everyone deserves help with whatever is relevant to them.
I was wondering if your appointment was coming up, cause I remembered about your letter to him. I just didn't want to upset you. And I didn't know if I'd be in the state of mind to write very coherently. I care about how things are going with your situation and I hope you always let us know about how you are coping. You don't have to go through it alone.
I don't knowledge anything about regulations involving termination so I'll leave that to others with more knowledge but I couldn't not post to say that I support you, and to give you hugs for your next session. ((((((Karolina))))))
El
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