Posted by antigua on June 20, 2006, at 13:37:58
In reply to Re: I'm embarassed to post » antigua, posted by Dinah on June 20, 2006, at 11:02:49
yes, I would say my T was somewhat careless and thoughtless during that time period. But I think when you have such a long-standing relationship it's really hard not to notice their fallabilities (sp?). For me, it made her more human, and I think it saved me from going through intense transference with her (I DO suffer from transference with males, though). As much as she is/was my T, I knew she couldn't be all there for awhile, and I guess I was willing to wait (I never give up, BTW, which is a terrible fault that you should never suffer)for her to return to her usual self.And she did, and I learned so much from the whole experience, that everything isn't always about me, etc.
take care,
antigua
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