Posted by happyflower on June 17, 2006, at 18:35:37
In reply to But we never do » happyflower, posted by Dinah on June 17, 2006, at 17:24:53
I don't know exactly what happened because he refused to talk to me about it. But yet I am suppose to just forget that he we haven't had sex for over year because he refused me? And now he wants me to be his wife after he ignored me emotionally, physcially for over a year? What does he think I am a doormatt? I just don't think I can just forget about it all and go on like everything is okay. It is making me very angry. I want him to do personal therapy because I don't think I want to couples therapy because I don't know if I even want to be a couple anymore.
I built my whole life around him and our kids, stopped working, and issolated myself for everyone else, and now I am alone and it sucks. My whole world is upside down and I don't know what I want. I just want someone to care about me and put there arms around me and tell me I matter to them. But at the momement I don't want my DH to even touch me but yet I have no one else. I guess I always have to learn the hard way.
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