Posted by B2chica on May 31, 2006, at 11:00:17
In reply to B2chica...you want the truth?, posted by B2chica on May 31, 2006, at 10:53:56
there is only one truth in your post..."i don't know how to be nice to you"
this will take time. you've spent 26 some years beating people to the punch of putting you down, hurting you. it's much easier if you hurt yourself than if someone you love or trust does. the betrayal from a loved one is irreversable.
this person is speaking about only a part of you that shows fears. every sentence of what is said is a fear, not a truth.
this is why even when you think you are strong and don't need therapy. the truth is you don't want to rely on anyone other than yourself. but you need to break that barrier again because you need help. you need help so that you Don't repeat any history, so that you don't overcompensate, so that anxiety and depression do not rule your life. you must let your guard down....when you are ready. take it slow if you must, but take that step.
(((b2c)))
poster:B2chica
thread:650966
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