Posted by pegasus on May 24, 2006, at 20:04:14
In reply to maybe the hardest talking I've ever done, posted by llrrrpp on May 24, 2006, at 17:16:57
This does seem rather harsh and/or cold . . . at least the way I read it. I mean, does he have to be the *referee* between you and depression? Can't he at least be your coach? Doesn't he at least root for you to win from the sidelines? If truly not, then I wonder what his theory is about how that therapeutic stance can be helpful to you. I mean, it's true that we all have to fight our own battles in the end, but it's also true that having some significant support and encouragement can help a lot.
Do you have any other realistic options for seeking therapy from someone else? How do you feel about this guy, other than his lack of support.
I'm a bit worried that he didn't want to explore the hunger stike thing with you also. Especially since you frame it as a form a self injury. I would think most therapists would consider that an important topic for therapy. Especially since you did bring it up (at least in your note).
Concerned about you.
peg
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