Posted by Estella on May 21, 2006, at 2:40:21
In reply to A new male T - a wish, posted by orchid on May 19, 2006, at 16:21:47
That is something I've been thinking about too. If I got to choose to see whoever I wanted I would probably look for the same. Would it be good for me? Maybe... Or maybe not. I don't know.
I think you are right though that there are different transference responses that come up with different people. I wondered for a while whether working through one kind of transference was supposed to help you out with the other kinds or whether you needed a t for each kind. I still don't know what to say about that lol.
I've been thinking...
My trust was broken pretty severely.
With my father leaving yeah...
But then with those guys who took advantage of me.
That was a major break of trust.And so now I guess I'm not so trusting.
Or a relatively 'small' thing can bring all that stuff torrenting back.
With male clinician's...
That is what tends to happen.
I mean yeah I can point to various things they did to break my trust...
But I'm starting to wonder whether anyone aside from God would be able to get by over time without my feeling like my trust has been broken...It is hard because all the stuff comes back.
Trauma.
I'm over emotion dysregulation
And I'm onto trauma with respect to
What Is Wrong With Me (currently)I've got a female clinician.
Got mother issues too so there will be stuff to work through...
But it is different.I'm hoping it will help with the other too...
I think it will.
In fact it might work out even better...
Because sometimes when the transference is too intense...
I think it harms more than it helps the working through.But I really have no idea
poster:Estella
thread:645986
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