Posted by linebored on April 20, 2006, at 5:04:37
In reply to Re: Unhappily in love » linebored, posted by orchid on April 18, 2006, at 18:30:14
Thank you so much for the insight,
I couldn’t help but cry when I read your replies to my post, I felt understand and it gave me a deep comfort.
This “love” or transference love is such a secret that I cannot tell anyone, I’m ashamed of it, because it feels pathetic and real at the same time.
So, besides my psychiatrist, you are the only people that I could share this feelings, and I know I shared little, but the main part of it.
Hope I develop the confidence to share more when I am ready…
Meanwhile I’ve read the former posts about this kind of love that feels so real … it can’t be a coincidence that so many people feels this love at the same circumstances.But.. I´m developing a new idea about the transference issues:
It can well be a replay of a previous emotional situation (of the past).
Nevertheless, who knows if it can be a projective (into the future) emotional stimulus?
A self inside of us that wants to develop and wake up for life, so the pulses are awakening and prospects such a deep feeling, meaning at the end that we’re ready to love and by transference it proposes a energetic reaction?Sorry, it’s confuse (like I’m now in every way)
Thank you from my heart,
Linebored
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